Archive for February, 2007

Warrior of the Light – Gluttony

// February 28th, 2007 // No Comments » // warriors of the light, wisdom, writing

Fifth deadly sin: Gluttony
According to the dictionary: feminine noun, from the Latin gula. Excessive eating and drinking, voracity, greediness.

According to the Catholic Church: Inordinate desire for pleasure related to food or drink. One should not appreciate foods that are bad for health. One should not pay more attention to food than to those that accompany us. Unjustified intoxication is a complete lack of sense and a mortal sin.

According to Peter de Vries: Gluttony is a disorder; it means that something is devouring us inside.

From the “Verba Seniorum” (The Wisdom of the Ancients): The Father Abbott was strolling with a monk from Sceta, when they were invited in to eat. The owner of the house, honored by the presence of the priests, gave orders to serve what was best.

However, the monk was fasting. When the food arrived, he picked out a pea and chewed it slowly. He ate nothing further.

Upon leaving, the Father Abbott said to him:

- Brother, when you visit someone, don’t make your holiness an insult. Next time you are fasting, don’t accept invitations to dinner.

Recipe for goose liver with truffles: Clean the goose livers impeccably, chop the liver and truffles into small cubes. Line entirely a small, high pie dish with several small strips of bacon (the strips should be very finely cut). Season with a little salt and pepper and scatter on top some small pieces of truffle. Place the remaining pieces of liver and truffle in successive layers. Seal the pie dish hermetically using a strip of pastry made of flour and water and bake the foie gras in a bain-marie in the oven for 50 to 60 minutes. Afterwards, place a weight on top to compress the mixture.

Hunger in the world: The number of hungry people in the developing countries should drop from the present 777 million to around 440 million in 2030. This means that the goal of the World Food Summit agreed upon in 1996, of cutting by half the number of hungry people compared with the levels found in 1990-92 (815 million), will not be achieved even in 2030. Sub-Saharan Africa is a reason for great concern because the number of chronically undernourished people will only fall probably from the present 194 million to 183 million in 2030 ( Source: FAO report – World agriculture: Toward 2015/2030)

In a Sufi fable: A baker wanted to meet Uways, so Uways went to the bakery disguised as a beggar. He began to eat a bread roll; the baker beat him and threw him out into the street.

- Madman! – said a disciple arriving – don’t you see that you threw out the master you wanted to know?

Contrite, the baker asked what he could do for him to forgive him. Uways asked him to invite him and his disciples to eat.

The baker took them to an excellent restaurant and ordered the most expensive dishes.

- That is how we distinguish the good man from the bad man – said Uways to the disciples, in the middle of lunch. This man is capable of spending ten gold coins on a banquet because I am famous, but he is incapable of giving a bread roll to feed a hungry beggar.

Comment from the Tao Te King: Thirty spokes are fitted together in the cube forming a wheel. But it is its middle empty space that allows the car to be used. Model some clay to make a vase. Cut out in the empty space of the walls doors and windows so that a room may be used.

In that way someone produces what is useful but it is the empty space that makes it effective.

(next: Envy)

Study: College Students More Narcissistic Than Ever

// February 27th, 2007 // No Comments » // narcissism

[Editor Note: OK...as much as I want to, I am NOT going to dedicate this REpost to anyone I know...no, I am not. No indeed. Nod to Bill G. who clued me in on this newspiece. Yeah, I know it's FOX...]

Study: College Students More Narcissistic Than Ever
Tuesday , February 27, 2007

NEW YORK — Today’s college students are more narcissistic and self-centered than their predecessors, according to a comprehensive new study by five psychologists who worry that the trend could be harmful to personal relationships and American society. “We need to stop endlessly repeating ‘You’re special’ and having children repeat that back,” said the study’s lead author, Professor Jean Twenge of San Diego State University. “Kids are self-centered enough already.” Twenge and her colleagues, in findings to be presented at a workshop Tuesday in San Diego on the generation gap, examined the responses of 16,475 college students nationwide who completed an evaluation called the Narcissistic Personality Inventory between 1982 and 2006. The standardized inventory, known as the NPI, asks for responses to such statements as “If I ruled the world, it would be a better place,” “I think I am a special person” and “I can live my life any way I want to.”

The researchers describe their study as the largest ever of its type and say students’ NPI scores have risen steadily since the current test was introduced in 1982. By 2006, they said, two-thirds of the students had above-average scores, 30 percent more than in 1982. Narcissism can have benefits, said study co-author W. Keith Campbell of the University of Georgia, suggesting it could be useful in meeting new people “or auditioning on ‘American Idol.’” “Unfortunately, narcissism can also have very negative consequences for society, including the breakdown of close relationships with others,” he said. The study asserts that narcissists “are more likely to have romantic relationships that are short-lived, at risk for infidelity, lack emotional warmth, and to exhibit game-playing, dishonesty, and over-controlling and violent behaviors.”

Twenge, the author of “Generation Me: Why Today’s Young Americans Are More Confident, Assertive, Entitled — and More Miserable Than Ever Before,” said narcissists tend to lack empathy, react aggressively to criticism and favor self-promotion over helping others. The researchers traced the phenomenon back to what they called the “self-esteem movement” that emerged in the 1980s, asserting that the effort to build self-confidence had gone too far.

As an example, Twenge cited a song commonly sung to the tune of “Frere Jacques” in preschool: “I am special, I am special. Look at me.” “Current technology fuels the increase in narcissism,” Twenge said. “By its very name, MySpace encourages attention-seeking, as does YouTube.” Some analysts have commended today’s young people for increased commitment to volunteer work. But Twenge viewed even this phenomenon skeptically, noting that many high schools require community service and many youths feel pressure to list such endeavors on college applications.

Campbell said the narcissism upsurge seemed so pronounced that he was unsure if there were obvious remedies. “Permissiveness seems to be a component,” he said. “A potential antidote would be more authoritative parenting. Less indulgence might be called for.” The new report follows a study released by UCLA last month which found that nearly three-quarters of the freshmen it surveyed thought it was important to be “very well-off financially.” That compared with 62.5 percent who said the same in 1980 and 42 percent in 1966. Yet students, while acknowledging some legitimacy to such findings, don’t necessarily accept negative generalizations about their generation.

Hanady Kader, a University of Washington senior, said she worked unpaid last summer helping resettle refugees and considers many of her peers to be civic-minded. But she is dismayed by the competitiveness of some students who seem prematurely focused on career status. “We’re encouraged a lot to be individuals and go out there and do what you want, and nobody should stand in your way,” Kader said. “I can see goals and ambitions getting in the way of other things like relationships.” Kari Dalane, a University of Vermont sophomore, says most of her contemporaries are politically active and not overly self-centered. “People are worried about themselves — but in the sense of where are they’re going to find a place in the world,” she said. “People want to look their best, have a good time, but it doesn’t mean they’re not concerned about the rest of the world.” Besides, some of the responses on the narcissism test might not be worrisome, Dalane said. “It would be more depressing if people answered, ‘No, I’m not special.’”

Story of the Day – Promises

// February 26th, 2007 // No Comments » // Storypeople


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DBW: Low Friends

// February 23rd, 2007 // No Comments » // buddhist, wisdom

Do not choose bad friends.
Do not choose persons of low habits.
Select good friends. Be discriminating.
Choose the best.
-Dhammapada 78

From “365 Buddha:

Egyptian Mardi Gras

// February 23rd, 2007 // No Comments » // art, humor, news

Sex and booze figured in Egyptian rites

Archaeologists find evidence for ancient version of ‘Girls Gone Wild’

Festival

Courtesy Betsy Bryan / JHU

A drawing based on an ancient Egyptian wall painting shows a drinking festival in progress. The upper row of figures features revelers drinking wine, including one woman who has overindulged. The lower row shows a procession with musicians.

Neil on a Daily Basis

// February 22nd, 2007 // No Comments » // writing

I love my RSS feed from Neil Gaiman’s blog. It provides me with wisdom, prophesy, trivia, and intellectual nonsence of the most succulant variety. Todays discussion deals with children’s literature and the discussion of bollocks! YUMMY!

Goodbye New Orleans

// February 16th, 2007 // No Comments » // editorial, nola

In the New York Times a decent article on how those people who love NOLA, are choosing to leave…because it’s not getting any better. Makes me sad…but I understand. I just wish I could do something to make it better.

Too Sexy

// February 14th, 2007 // No Comments » // humor, reznor

Partially because I just love villains and partially because of the uncanny resemblance between Mr. Trent Reznor and Mr. Severus Snape…but I found this while perusing the Internet and just had to share…

WOL – Deadly Sins: Wrath

// February 14th, 2007 // No Comments » // inspiration, warriors of the light

Issue nº 140

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In this issue
- Fourth Deadly Sin: Wrath

Fourth Deadly Sin: Wrath
According to the dictionary: feminine noun, from the Latin Ira. Choler, anger, indignation, rage, desire for revenge.
For the Catholic Church: Wrath is not only against others, but can turn back against someone who lets hate sow seeds in his heart. In this case usually he is led to suicide. We need to understand that punishment and its imposition belong to God.
In “Verba Seniorum” (The Word of the Ancients): Two wise men who lived in the same chapel in the Sahara desert, chatted one day: “Let’s fight so that we don’t become disassociated from the human being, or we will end up not understanding properly the passions that torture him”, said one of them.
“I don’t know how to begin a fight”.
“Well, we will do the following: I am putting this brick here in the middle, and you say to me: it’s mine. I will answer: no, this brick is mine. Then we will begin arguing and we will end up fighting”.
And so they did. One said that the brick was his. The other argued, saying it was not. “Don’t let’s waste time over this, keep this brick,” said the first. “Your idea for a fight was not very good. When we perceive that we have an immortal soul, it is impossible to fight over things”.
In a laboratory study: Janice Williams followed up for six years 13,000 men and women aged between 45 and 64 years and, basing herself on their behavior, discovered that people who get intensely irritated, and frequently, have three times more chances of having a heart attack than those that face adversities more serenely (Williams, 2000).
That happens because, at each episode of Anger, the organism releases an extra load of adrenalin in the bloodstream. The high concentration of adrenalin raises the number of heartbeats and, at the same time, makes the blood vessels narrower, raising blood pressure. The repetition of such episodes may give rise to two problems usually associated to the heart attack: alteration of the heart rate and a sudden dilation of fatty deposits that might be in the arteries.(Source: Ballone G.J. ? Anger and Hate, negative emotions)
In popular Brazilian music: While there is strength in my heart I don’t want anything else/ Just revenge! Revenge! Revenge! Crying out to the saints / You have to roll like the stones that roll on the road / without ever having a place of your own to be able to rest in. Lupicínio Rodrigues)
In the words of William Blake: I was angry with my friend: I mentioned this to him, and the anger went. I was angry with my enemy: I didn’t mention it to him, and the anger increased.
On hate for foreigners (xenophobia): “All Western countries are infiltrated by Moslems. Some of them are even able to talk amiably, while they wait for the moment to kill us. They say that the events of September 11 (2001) happened because of a shock of civilizations. That is a lie: a shock of civilizations calls for two distinct civilizations and that is not the case. There is only one civilization: ours. ” (Statements made by the leaders of the Danish People’s Party – ? DPP ? sowing the seeds of hate and the new Fascism, which Europe and the entire world are watching grow without taking serious steps)
Comment from the Tao Te King: All weapons are instruments of evil and are absolutely not the instruments of the wise prince. He uses them only when urged by necessity. Calm and repose are what he appreciates; victory by the force of weapons is undesirable for him
Considering it necessary is a sign that the man takes pleasure in killing other men, and he who takes pleasure in that killing may not run an empire.
When we want to weaken someone, we should first strengthen him. If we want to defeat him, we must first raise him. If we intend to deprive him, we must first give him presents. This is what is called subtle discernment.
Thus, the submissive and the weak will conquer the tough and strong.
(next: Gluttony) em>
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WOD: billet-doux

// February 13th, 2007 // No Comments » // language, writing

billet-doux • \bill-ee-DOO\ noun : a love letter

Example Sentence: Poor George spent hours laboring over a billet-doux, only to have his girlfriend toss it aside and demand, “Where are my roses?”
Did you Know?

The first recorded use of the French word “billet doux” (literally, “sweet letter”) in an English context occurs in John Dryden’s 1673 play Marriage a-la-Mode. In the play, Dryden pokes fun at linguistic Francophiles in English society through the comic character Melanthe, who is described by her prospective lover Rodophil as follows: “No lady can be so curious of a new fashion as she is of a new French word; she’s the very mint of the nation, and as fast as any bullion comes out of France, coins it immediately into our language.” True to form, Melanthe describes Rodophil with the following words: “Let me die, but he’s a fine man; he sings and dances en Français, and writes the billets doux to a miracle.”

Grammar Tips

// February 13th, 2007 // 2 Comments » // writing

I’m trying to learn more about grammar so that I can make informed choices in my communication. If I hear anything that makes something easy I plan to include it here, so that I may reference it easily. I hope that others will be able to make use of the tips too, because I’ve noticed that since the surge of the Internet…we communicate like offal!

Hung – referring to PAST executions or hangings.
Hanged – current use when talking about the action of dangling someone from a rope.

The use of the Colon (:) – The colon is a mark of expectation or addition. It is used ONLY after a complete sentence to elaborate on the content. Use it only if you can replace the colon with ” namely“.

among: used when using more than two things.
between: used when only two things, or distinct individual items (more than two)

Quotation Marks: Single vs. Double – Double quotes are used when quoting words of speech, titles or sometimes words that the writer wants to denote as unbelievable or ironic (Scare quotes). Single quotes are used to show a quote within a quote such as; Teeny said “I knew my life was saved when I heard the lifeguard shout ‘grab on’”.

Toward: Same as towards, more common in US
Towards: Mostly British use.

Backward: Same as backwards, more common in US
Backwards: Mostly British use.

Quotes: verb, to repeat what someone has said or written.
Quotation: noun, describing the quotes.

Now, remember. I am not claiming to be any grammar genius. I am only trying to improve my own grammar. You will most certainly find errors in my writing, so I’m not trying to be a know it all. I’m only sharing what I’ve learned so that others may learn where their own grammar knowledge has some potholes.

Silly story…but a teensy bit funny

// February 12th, 2007 // No Comments » // humor

My Girlfriend’s Little Sister
by Satans Handicapped Helper

I was happy. My girlfriend and I had been dating for over a year, and so we decided to get married.

My parents helped us in every way, my friends encouraged me, and my girlfriend? She was a dream! There was only one thing bothering me, very much indeed, and that one thing was her younger sister.

My prospective sister-in-law was twenty years of age, wore tight mini skirts and low cut blouses. She would regularly bend down when near me and I got many a pleasant view of her underwear.

It had to be deliberate. She never did it when she was near anyone else . One day little sister called and asked me to come over to check the wedding invitations. She was alone when I arrived. She whispered to me that soon I was to be married, and she had feelings and desires for me that she couldn’t overcome and didn’t really want to overcome .

She told me that she wanted to make love to me just once before I got married and committed my life to her sister. I was in total shock and couldn’t say a word.

She said, “I’m going upstairs to my bedroom, and if you want to go ahead with it just come up and get me.” I was stunned. I was frozen in shock as I watched her go up the stairs. When she reached the top she pulled down her panties and threw them down the stairs at me .

I stood there for a moment, then turned and went straight to the front door. I opened the door and stepped out of the house. I walked straight towards my car. My future father-in-law was standing outside .

With tears in his eyes he hugged me and said, “We are very happy that you have passed our little test. We couldn’t ask for a better man for our daughter. Welcome to the family.

The moral of this story is: “Always keep your condoms in your car.”

Cthulhu Antenna Ball

// February 12th, 2007 // No Comments » // humor

I am SUCH a sucker for Cthulhu toys…now I find an adorable little Cthulhu Antenna Ball for ones car antenna! Oh…so cute! And to think…my pirate antenna ball just got sucked up into the car wash a month ago, so I’m in the market for a replacement! :)

Attracting Hummingbirds With Herbs

// February 12th, 2007 // No Comments » // herbs

Attracting Hummingbirds With Herbs

There are approximately 330 species of humming birds and luckily for herb gardeners the plants we cultivate are some of their favorite things to visit for nectar. Tiny little birds they weigh between 2- and 20 grams, the heaviest being around the size of an American quarter. Inviting hummingbirds into our gardens not only gives us great enjoyment of their beauty and dynamic winged antics but an added benefit- their amazing insect eating ability. Hummingbirds must eat twice their weight in food each day. For hummingbirds, a large portion of their diet is insects, providing important protein for their diet – watch out no-see-ums, and mosquitoes!

Herbs for attracting hummingbirds

Agastache rupestris is a hardy drought tolerant herb sometimes called root beer mint because the leaves and flowers smell like root beer it is also called hummingbird mint because of the perfect tubular flowers. With so many varieties of agastache to choose from you could make a place in every part of your garden for a different variety and color. One of my favorites- agastache ‘Blue Fortune’ it is sometimes called Korean mint, and the hummies love hanging out chasing each other away to gorge on the tasty blue blossoms.

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Lavender is another hummingbird favorite. One of the more tender varieties- but incredible during the season and filled with hummingbirds is lavendula pinnata. It may also be known as fern leafed lavender because of its unusual leaves. Although it cannot take freezing temperatures, it grows quickly and hummingbirds delight in the perfect tubular flowers!

Nepeta cataria or catnip is another of the flying bombardiers favorite sipping herbs just be sure to bell your cat for protection.

Comfrey or Symphytum with lovely mauve, crimson, or blue flowers is another excellent addition. Hyssop officinalis, Rosemary officinalis, and Sages or salvias of all types are all perfect for creating a working herb garden that also brings on the flying jewels of the sky.

Propagating

Most of these plants can be purchased in pots already grown at your local independent garden center although some big box and chain stores will have rosemary and lavenders they are often not the best resource for some of the medicinal herbs.

Creating an herb garden that provides you with plants to use in cooking, medicinals, and scent will provide you with an opportunity to meet your local garden center owner and learn about varieties that are perfect for your growing climate.

Perhaps you would like to grow your own. If you would like to propagate these plants by cuttings or seeds, an excellent resource is American Horticultural Society Plant Propagation (American Horticultural Society Practical Guides) ISBN13: 9780789441164. I like Powell Books because of their vast new and used books and the staff is friendly and well informed when you call with questions

Be sure to include fresh water for the little birds to dip and wash in and you will find you attract even more of these little flying jewels in your herb garden.

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Uses
Agastache: Antibacterial; Antifungal; Antipyretic; Aromatic; Cancer; Carminative; Diaphoretic; Febrifuge; Refrigerant; Stomachic.
Lavender: antiseptic, anti-bacterial, anti-fungal, anti-inflammatory, anti-convulsive, and last but certainly not least – anti-depressant

Comfrey: vulnerary, astringent, expectorant, emollient, demulcent, antiseptic, pectoral, nutritive, tonic, alterative, styptic, homeostatic, antioxidant

Rosemary: Tonic, astringent, diaphoretic, stimulant

Hyssop: Antiseptic; Aromatherapy; Astringent; Carminative; Diaphoretic; Emmenagogue; Expectorant; Pectoral ; Stimulant; Stomachic; Tonic; Vasodilator.

Salvia: Antihydrotic; Antiseptic; Antispasmodic; Astringent; Carminative; Cholagogue; Depurative; Expectorant; Febrifuge; Stimulant; Tonic; Vasodilator

Nepeta: Antispasmodic; Antitussive; Astringent; Carminative; Diaphoretic; Emmenagogue; Nervine; Refrigerant; Sedative; Stimulant; Stomachic; Tonic.

One of the best mail order businesses for agastache and many other herbs is High Country Gardens. You will find a link to them below. I have found the quality of the plants great; they ship well and on time, and once they arrive- have always thrived in my gardens. I believe they will ship to Canada but it is best to contact them about shipping. If any of the readers out there on Bella from others countries would like to send me resources, I will contact them to review their herbs and plant varieties please let me know, as we are an international community here and the more resources and knowledge the better! Finally, putting out feeders until your garden is blooming will keep your hummingbirds returning to your gardens earlier in the spring and much longer in the waning of summer.

Weird Words: Muliebrious

// February 5th, 2007 // No Comments » // language

Weird Words

Muliebrious /’mju:lIEbri@s/

Effeminate.

I found this rare word in the last chapter of S M Stirling’s book The Sky People, though he spells it slightly differently: “The muliebrous features could have been man or woman or creature from the stories his grandmother had told.” His spelling has been used by others but mine is that of the Oxford English Dictionary, which has just one example, from 1652. It’s not quite that rare, though one has to search around for instances. It appeared in an article, The Industrial Value of Woman (a title that would today raise a few eyebrows) in The North American Review in 1882, in which the author wrote of a muliebrious or over-feminine woman.

Its companion adjective is “muliebral”, characteristic of women or womanhood, which lacks the other’s negative implications and which featured in the magazine The World & I in 1995: “Muller and Gillis represent the vibrant and irresistible muliebral force that has been weaving its way through the dance world for the last twenty years.”

Both derive from the classical Latin “muliebris”, womanly, which is from “mulier”, a woman. The latter is also the source of the even rarer and long obsolete legal term “mulier” that describes a child born in wedlock and so legitimate, and of the rather more common “muliebrity”, womanhood or femininity.