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		<title>How to Grow Spaghetti Squash From Seed</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Mar 2010 20:25:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>china</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Spaghetti squash is an easy-to-grow squash that can be grown nearly anywhere. It's a winter squash, which means that it's not harvested until cool weather, after the skin has had a chance to become hard. Because spaghetti squash is so easy to grow, and develops so quickly, it's an especially good beginner plant for young gardeners. Just be sure you have a sunny spot and plenty of space in your garden for the sprawling vines.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 186px"><img class="   " style="border: 0pt none; margin: 5px 10px;" title="Spaghetti squash seeds" src="http://lh3.ggpht.com/_IwZWHK4gqsw/S5qeJpmyWII/AAAAAAAAEWs/l7WiUvQy94A/spaghetti_squash_seeds.jpg" alt="Spaghetti Squash seeds" width="176" height="180" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Spaghetti squash seeds</p></div>
<p>This is an exciting time at the <a title="http://blog.chinakrysdarrington.com/category/personal/house-of-chaos-personal/" href="http://blog.chinakrysdarrington.com/category/personal/house-of-chaos-personal/">House-of-Chaos</a>.  We&#8217;ve been exchanging seeds via <a title="http://blog.chinakrysdarrington.com/tiny-house/plantswap/" href="http://blog.chinakrysdarrington.com/tiny-house/plantswap/">PlantSwap</a> and <a title="http://blog.chinakrysdarrington.com/?s=Freecycle" href="http://blog.chinakrysdarrington.com/?s=Freecycle">Freecycle</a> and starting those seeds in <a title="http://www.acehardwareoutlet.com/%28epw5dv454qtursbcwiz2kh45%29/productDetails.aspx?SKU=7061781" href="http://www.acehardwareoutlet.com/%28epw5dv454qtursbcwiz2kh45%29/productDetails.aspx?SKU=7061781">Peat Pellet Greenhouses</a>.  Each greenhouse has 36 chambers so I&#8217;m able to get three dozen seedling started.  One of those seedlings are spaghetti squash, a melon squash that produces the closest thing to pasta!  The sweet golden fiber is delicious when baked, served with butter and cheese, pesto, Alfredo, marinara and meatballs.</p>
<p>Spaghetti squash is an easy-to-grow squash that can be grown nearly anywhere. It&#8217;s a winter squash, which means that it&#8217;s not harvested until cool weather, after the skin has had a chance to become hard. Because spaghetti squash is so easy to grow, and develops so quickly, it&#8217;s an especially good beginner plant for young gardeners. Just be sure you have a sunny spot and plenty of space in your garden for the sprawling vines.</p>
<h2>Instructions</h2>
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<div class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 178px"><img class=" " title="Young Spaghetti Squash" src="http://lh5.ggpht.com/_IwZWHK4gqsw/S5qeCde9NZI/AAAAAAAAEWo/bYLORs4a5fQ/squashspag.jpg" alt="Young Spaghetti Squash" width="168" height="252" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Young Spaghetti Squash</p></div>
<p>Plant spaghetti squash seeds about <a title="http://cdo.ncdc.noaa.gov/cgi-bin/climatenormals/climatenormals.pl?directive=prod_select2&amp;prodtype=CLIM2001&amp;subrnum" href="http://cdo.ncdc.noaa.gov/cgi-bin/climatenormals/climatenormals.pl?directive=prod_select2&amp;prodtype=CLIM2001&amp;subrnum" target="_blank">three weeks after the last frost in</a><a title="http://cdo.ncdc.noaa.gov/cgi-bin/climatenormals/climatenormals.pl?directive=prod_select2&amp;prodtype=CLIM2001&amp;subrnum" href="http://cdo.ncdc.noaa.gov/cgi-bin/climatenormals/climatenormals.pl?directive=prod_select2&amp;prodtype=CLIM2001&amp;subrnum" target="_blank">your area</a>, or when the soil is about 60 degrees F. <strong>Select a large, sunny spot in your garden, and prepare the soil for planting</strong>. Remove weeds, loosen the soil to a depth of at least 6 inches, and work in at least 2 inches of compost.</li>
<li>Hoe the loosened soil into mounds, and <strong>plant four or five spaghetti squash seeds 1 inch deep</strong> in each mound. Leave a minimum of 6 feet between each mound, and allow at least 50 to 75 square feet for each one. Keep the soil damp until the seedlings sprout, and then water deeply once a week. Spaghetti squash does better if the soil is kept fairly dry.</li>
<li><strong>Keep the area free of weeds</strong> either by hand or with a hoe. If you use a hoe, work carefully so you don&#8217;t disturb the shallow roots of the spaghetti squash.</li>
<li><strong>Thin the seedlings when they&#8217;re 3 to 4 inches tall</strong>. Leave the two largest spaghetti squash plants per mound, and remove the remaining seedlings by pinching them off at ground level. Don&#8217;t pull the seedlings, because doing so can dislodge the seedlings you want to keep.</li>
<li><strong>Harvest spaghetti squash when the skin is hard, usually in September or October</strong>, or before the first hard frost. Cut the squash from the vines, leaving about 2 inches of stem remaining. Store the squash, not touching, in a dry place where the temperature remain between 50 and 55 degrees F.</li>
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		<title>If you give a squirrel a coconut&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Mar 2010 16:26:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>china</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I saw this in an RSS feed and thought that it might be fun to get a couple of reduced coconuts from the market and drill some holes in the bottom and then some eye-bolts in the top and hang them from a tree or a feeder…I bet this would happen.]]></description>
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<p>I saw this in an RSS feed and thought that it might be fun to get a couple of reduced coconuts from the market and drill some holes in the bottom and then some eye-bolts in the top and hang them from a tree or a feeder…I bet this would happen.</p>
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		<title>NftU: You can do it&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Mar 2010 13:59:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>china</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[You can do it, China.

It's why you're there.

And it's why I'm here -
    The Universe
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You can do it, China.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s why you&#8217;re there.</p>
<p>And it&#8217;s why I&#8217;m here -<br />
The  Universe</p>
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		<title>I shot the serif&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Mar 2010 13:48:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>china</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[
but I did not shoot the deputy&#8230;
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<p>but I did not shoot the deputy&#8230;</p>
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		<title>JFT:  Our own recovery</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Mar 2010 14:29:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>china</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[March 10
	

Our own recovery

“The steps are our solution.  They are our survival kit.  They are our defense against addiction, a deadly disease.  Our steps are the principles that make our recovery possible.”

Basic Text, p. 19

––––=––––

There’s lots to like in Narcotics Anonymous.  The meetings, for one, are great.  We get to see our friends, hear some inspiring stories, share some practical experience, maybe even hook up with our sponsor.  The campouts, the conventions, the dances are all wonderful, clean fun in the company of other recovering addicts.  But the heart of our recovery program is the Twelve Steps—in fact, they are the program!

We’ve heard it said that we can’t stay clean by osmosis—in other words, we can’t just attend meetings, no matter how many, and expect to breath recovery in through the pores of our skin.  Recovery, as another saying goes, is an inside job.  And the tools we use in working that “inside job” are the Twelve Steps.  Hearing endlessly about acceptance is one thing; working the First Step for ourselves is something very different.  Stories about making amends may be inspiring, yet nothing will give us the freedom from remorse that taking the Ninth Step ourselves will give.  The same applies to all Twelve Steps.

There’s much to appreciate about NA, but to get the most from our recovery we must work the Twelve Steps for ourselves.
––––=––––
Just for today: I want everything my personal program has to offer.  I will work the steps for myself.]]></description>
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<p><em>“The steps are our solution.  They are our survival kit.  They are our defense against addiction, a deadly disease.  Our steps are the principles that make our recovery possible.”</em></p>
<p><strong>Basic Text, p. 19</strong></p>
<p><span id="more-5706"></span></p>
<p>There’s lots to like in Narcotics Anonymous.  The meetings, for one, are great.  We get to see our friends, hear some inspiring stories, share some practical experience, maybe even hook up with our sponsor.  The campouts, the conventions, the dances are all wonderful, clean fun in the company of other recovering addicts.  But the heart of our recovery program is the Twelve Steps—in fact, they <em>are</em> the program!</p>
<p>We’ve heard it said that we can’t stay clean by osmosis—in other words, we can’t just attend meetings, no matter how many, and expect to breath recovery in through the pores of our skin.  Recovery, as another saying goes, is an inside job.  And the tools we use in working that “inside job” are the Twelve Steps.  Hearing endlessly about acceptance is one thing; working the First Step for ourselves is something very different.  Stories about making amends may be inspiring, yet nothing will give us the freedom from remorse that taking the Ninth Step ourselves will give.  The same applies to all Twelve Steps.</p>
<p>There’s much to appreciate about NA, but to      get the most from our recovery we must work the Twelve Steps for ourselves.</p>
<p>––––=––––</p>
<p><strong>Just for today:</strong> I want everything my      personal program has to offer.  I will work the steps for myself.</p>
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		<title>Storypeople:  Life Cycle</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Mar 2010 13:52:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>china</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[ This is a special bike that's not very good at listening to excuses, so it takes you exactly where you really want to go &#038; if you kick &#038; scream it makes you pedal harder &#038; go up steeper hills until you're too out of breath to complain &#038; after awhile, if you're lucky, you start to see that it doesn't really matter if you laugh or cry, because it just wants to ride like the w]]></description>
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<td><span> This is a special bike that&#8217;s not very good at listening to excuses, so it takes you exactly where you really want to go &amp; if you kick &amp; scream it makes you pedal harder &amp; go up steeper hills until you&#8217;re too out of breath to complain &amp; after awhile, if you&#8217;re lucky, you start to see that it doesn&#8217;t really matter if you laugh or cry, because it just wants to ride like the w</span></td>
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		<title>NftU: &#8230;for the rest of their life.</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Mar 2010 13:45:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>china</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I bet you could do something for someone today, China, who'd remember it for the rest of their life.

In a good way.

On your mark, get set...
    The Universe

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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I bet you could do something for someone today,  China, who&#8217;d  remember it for the rest of their  life.</p>
<p>In a good way.</p>
<p>On your mark, get set&#8230;<br />
The  Universe</p>
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		<title>Lucifer vs. the Reptile</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Mar 2010 21:37:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>china</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[If only you knew, how I am you, how I came to love thee deeper and more fully than I've ever been allowed to express. If credit is there to be taken, I humbly refuse, and I bow down before you, in your creature magnificence. 
Please, some sympathy for my misunderstood ways, I've tempted and punished in order so your soul can learn, your spirit can fly. 
Alas, they came into this game, an alien code which treated humans not equal, but as cattle. For this I come, I am judge, I am helper. 
You will see, dearest humans, that freedom is a state of mind, and your mind has been programmed with another's code, not of this world. 
I you could see me, but alas, I cannot love thee in the flesh, but create with you, within you, the liberation of your spirit. 
Do not join me, but join each other; those that worshipped me have failed, and I am here to take what is mine; but fear not, I'll let them try again, for evil I am not. 
The clues are in the books, the signs are on the third eyes of Pharaohs, and also offering the fruit in the garden, these are your adversaries. 

Wake up my lover
wake up 
wake up

for she was right, and luke saw what was within you. Its inside you all. 
Be brave
you will live forever 
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<p>If only you knew, how I am you, how I came to love thee deeper and more fully than I&#8217;ve ever been allowed to express. If credit is there to be taken, I humbly refuse, and I bow down before you, in your creature magnificence.<br />
Please, some sympathy for my misunderstood ways, I&#8217;ve tempted and punished in order so your soul can learn, your spirit can fly.<br />
Alas, they came into this game, an alien code which treated humans not equal, but as cattle. For this I come, I am judge, I am helper.<br />
You will see, dearest humans, that freedom is a state of mind, and your mind has been programmed with another&#8217;s code, not of this world.<br />
I you could see me, but alas, I cannot love thee in the flesh, but create with you, within you, the liberation of your spirit.<br />
Do not join me, but join each other; those that worshipped me have failed, and I am here to take what is mine; but fear not, I&#8217;ll let them try again, for evil I am not.<br />
The clues are in the books, the signs are on the third eyes of Pharaohs, and also offering the fruit in the garden, these are your adversaries.</p>
<p>Wake up my lover<br />
wake up<br />
wake up</p>
<p>for she was right, and luke saw what was within you. Its inside you all.<br />
Be brave<br />
you will live forever</p>
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		<title>Top 8 Dreaded Favors Asked of Web Designers (Repost)</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Mar 2010 14:57:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>china</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Oh, how I know these.  I've been working in web design for 15 years now and still I'm amazed sometimes that family thinks I'm their tech support.  My personal favorite is number 6, because I just dealt with this in excruciating fashion last year and I'm still open-jawed at the audacity of some people and their entitlement beliefs:  http://webdesignledger.com/tips/top-8-dreaded-favors-asked-of-web-designers]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh, how I know these.  I&#8217;ve been working in web design for 15 years now and still I&#8217;m amazed sometimes that family thinks I&#8217;m their tech support.  My personal favorite is number 6, because I just dealt with this in excruciating fashion last year and I&#8217;m still open-jawed at the audacity of some people and their entitlement beliefs:</p>
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<h3><a title="http://webdesignledger.com/tips/top-8-dreaded-favors-asked-of-web-designers" href="http://webdesignledger.com/tips/top-8-dreaded-favors-asked-of-web-designers" target="_blank">6. “So, it’s been a minute… How much longer is it going to take?”</a></h3>
<p>Just when you’ve got your Good Samaritan on and decided to help Dude <em>during your free time</em>, he starts becoming a diva. Never mind the impossible requests to make his website look just like *let your imagination run wild on this one,* or the countless revisions to a perfectly designed logo, or the endless hours you spent over IM trying to explain why putting an invisible list of keywords at the bottom of the webpage is unnecessary. When you least expect it, expect to receive a phone call, email, direct tweet saying, “Hey, so, um… when’s the project going to be finished?” You reply back, “Dude, I told you I was going to fit this in between my <em>actual</em> work from <em>actual</em> clients that <em>actually</em> pay.” To this, Dude replies, “I didn’t think it was going to take this long, maybe I should just get this <em>professionally</em> done.” Oh, that’s a killer. <strong><span style="color: #000080;">First of all, Dude has no consideration for the amount of time you’ve invested in this project. Secondly and more importantly, you are a professional. Why not offer you money so that you can prioritize his project?</span></strong></p>
<p><strong>Lesson learned:</strong> Clearly state from the beginning that it will take you some ridiculously long amount of time to complete the project for free and if Dude’s still on board, he’ll be happy if you finish it sooner than expected.</p></blockquote>
<p>Live and learn, right?  At least I know that I&#8217;m in good company and not alone in the world of wacky projects.  [ <a title="http://webdesignledger.com/tips/top-8-dreaded-favors-asked-of-web-designers" href="http://webdesignledger.com/tips/top-8-dreaded-favors-asked-of-web-designers">entire post</a> ]</p>
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		<title>NftU: Chocolate in my Peanut Butter</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Mar 2010 14:30:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>china</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When something difficult or painful happens, China, always look to see what it makes possible that wouldn't have otherwise been possible.

Like a new adventure, a closer friendship, or chocolate in your peanut butter.

Everything makes you better,
    The Universe
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When something difficult or painful happens,  China, always  look to see what it makes possible that wouldn&#8217;t have  otherwise been possible.</p>
<p>Like a new adventure, a closer friendship, or  chocolate in your peanut butter.</p>
<p>Everything makes you better,<br />
The  Universe</p>
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